Saturday, May 5, 2012

Understanding Things ...

ever thought what a certain decision you take can put you in ??

Just like Shakespeare's hero, Hamlet, pondered, "to be or not to be", at times, we are unable to decide on choices and end up feeling torn and confused.

Yes, this is true .. sometimes we do conclude upon certain things in a manner that we feel is right, at that very moment and after the thing's been implemented... we feel we could have done better .. or that the decision wasn't actually the right one at that moment .. 

In our everyday life, we take lots and lots of decisions .. on every subject.. about every moment .. about every step .. 
our whole world depends upon the decisions we take, the choices we make and thus ... we live solely on the path we choose ... 


Quite often we take decisions in haste ... and as i always say ... haste makes waste .. 
all we do in the process is lose our own self .. our loved ones ... our priorities ... 
our ambitions ... 
the things we might have foreseen, can turn blurred or can absolutely vanish out of our sight with one wrong untimely hasteful decision .. 

It is an advice ... or probably a experienced advice from a very revered scholar .. that once we think about taking a decision .. we should first put ourselves in the shoes of the ones who might be affected by our decision ... 
it isn't a hit and trial policy ... 
thee are sentiments ... there are beliefs .. and there are the divine interventions .. that are connected and intertwined so closely .. that breaking even a single knot from them can rip the whole thing apart .... 

consider a string of pearls ... until the knot is tightly and securely made, we live in a constant fear of dropping all the pearls ... but the one decision to check on the knot can make us feel relaxed and comfortable .. 

it's not just about taking the right decisions .. it is about believing in what choices we make ... 
if we choose wisely .. we won't lose a thing ... but how can we do that .... 
simple ... ask someone who has been in such a situation .. "for a ready made and experienced advice" .. or ... ponder on what pros and cons it can have ... 


One Small Decision ... And A Lifetime To Either Smile ... Or Cry ... 


Think About It ... 

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